trying to help...loving skills? maybe.

trying to help...loving skills? maybe.

So there's this weird thing (for lack of a better term) I'm running into lately.
It seems as though there are several people in my life that I would love to help, and should be capable of helping, but just don't quite know how to do so effectively. The circumstances vary from person to person and the circumstances don't really matter. But I seem to be hitting very thick walls when I try. I've tried throwing my hands up and saying "No Lord, You help" and and I've tried helping - However, it's as though I'm the bad guy either way...sigh...
I hate being the bad guy.
Espeically when I'm really not the bad guy.
The only thing I can think of is that I need to work on my loving skills. Ah, loving skills. There's a whole other topic.